I was raised in the same house and I am also a feminist. An ‘N of 2’, statistically definitive results!
I’d second your emphasis on behavior speaking as loud, or louder, than words. No one would call our Dad’s day-to-day language feminist or even explicitly anti-misogynist but his behavior - supportive, showing up, organizing his life around parenting and moms (and his) careers.
I was raised in the same house and I am also a feminist. An ‘N of 2’, statistically definitive results!
I’d second your emphasis on behavior speaking as loud, or louder, than words. No one would call our Dad’s day-to-day language feminist or even explicitly anti-misogynist but his behavior - supportive, showing up, organizing his life around parenting and moms (and his) careers.
And I agree - what a badass our mom is.
Very good, couldn't agree more, on soup, feminism, soccer, and political violence. And TIL the word stochastic.